‘You thought it was safe. But it somehow finds a new way to break. Because even though you’re the one who asked for this, now that you’ve got it you are completely adrift. With no compass, or map, or sense of where to go (…). You think you might find community, a sense of connection to something bigger, but you don’t. In fact, you feel more alone than you did before you left… But you survive. You learn that you can survive being alone.’